Nigerian actress and TV host, Nancy Isime has opened up concerning the trauma she skilled throughout childhood which affected it.
In an interview with Lilian Afegbai, the present host avowed that her childhood trauma turned her right into a human pleaser as she started to do all the pieces attainable to make individuals like her to her detriment.
In accordance with her, this occurred as a result of she required consideration which she by no means received as a toddler.
In her phrases:
“I don’t force myself on anybody. I used to be a people pleaser but that came from childhood trauma. It came from childhood trauma where you’ll be looking for attention as a child and you didn’t get it. When you get older, you start wanting people to like you. So even if it’s breaking you, even if you know that this person doesn’t like you and has said shit about you, you think maybe they can change their minds”.
Talking on how she overcame it, she affirmed that self love for helped her out of the state of affairs.
“But learning to love myself and being intuitive helped me to heal from being a people pleaser”.